My dad used to say that when you were a child Christmas came once every 2 years but when you were an adult it comes once every 6 months. Time is a funny thing. I remember sleepless nights that lasted forever, yet here I am, the mother of a high school graduate. It's humbling to look at my son and be so proud and know that he is amazing in spite of my failings as a mother. I will always have the feeling deep in my soul that I could've and should've done better.
Sunday, May 22, 2016 was Seminary Graduation. There was a time (many times) that I thought he wouldn't graduate from seminary. But he did and he was asked to speak at the graduation. He spoke about desire and how we learn based on our desire. It was a wonderful talk, beautifully written and delivered. He doesn't like to hear it but Xander is a born orator. He is clear, concise and engaging and so honest in his words and delivery.
Tuesday was Graduation. We had a get together at the house for him and for Michael. There was a good turn out and it was nice to celebrate these two cousins who have reached this milestone together.
Xander worked hard and graduated with High Honors. I was so proud that he graduated from Chandler High - my alma mater. GO WOLVES!
It was a gorgeous night - slightly breezy and cool. I remember my high school graduation as hot and stifling so we all felt blessed by the weather.
Both Michael and Xander graduated with High Honors. I'm so happy they graduated together from the same school.
Many people have asked me, "What are his plans?" "Where is he going to school?" "Is he going on a mission?" I think after 13 years of schooling it's ok not to know what comes next. I know Xander has ambitions and dreams and goals. As much as I want him to do certain things, it's ok if he doesn't.
It's his life to live. I'm proud and excited to be a part of it.
